Talking to yourself is not crazy
- davidsmith208
- 2 hours ago
- 2 min read
What you’re doing—saying “move back” out loud—is actually exactly what high-level performance science recommends. It’s not weird at all; it’s a tool.
Let’s break it down in a clean, practical way.
🧠 Why talking to yourself works (the real mechanism)
Neuroscience (and sports psych) shows that self-talk helps in three key ways:
1. It speeds up decision-making
When you say:
“move back”
“crosscourt”
“step in”
You are:
turning a vague perception into a clear action command
That reduces hesitation.
2. It links perception → action faster
Instead of:
seeing partner move forward
thinking about what to do
then acting
You shortcut it:
see → say → move
That’s faster and more automatic.
3. It quiets mental noise (ties to your book)
From No Self, No Problem:
The “ego voice” = rambling, judging, overthinking
Performance voice = short, task-focused
So:
❌ “Don’t mess this up” (ego)
✅ “Move back” (task cue)
👉 You’re replacing the noisy self with a functional command system
🎾 In tennis specifically (this is huge)
Top players—whether consciously or not—use cue words constantly.
Think of someone like Rafael Nadal:
between points: rituals + internal cues
during play: very simple intentions
Your doubles example = perfect
Partner moves forward → you say “move back”
That’s elite awareness because:
You recognized team geometry change
You issued a clear correction instantly
No hesitation
That’s exactly how strong doubles teams think.
🧪 In drills vs matches
✅ In drills — go all in
Talking out loud is extremely effective here.
Do things like:
“cross”
“line”
“short”
“recover”
“step in”
Even exaggerate it a bit.
👉 Why:
You’re literally programming patterns into your brain
⚖️ In matches — be strategic
You don’t need to talk constantly, but:
Use:
quiet self-talk
occasional short cues
Examples:
“feet”
“early”
“spin”
In doubles:
Talking out loud is actually normal and good:
“switch”
“mine”
“back”
⚠️ One important rule (this is key)
Self-talk must be:
✅ Short and actionable
“move back”
“crosscourt”
“low”
❌ Not analytical
“I should have gone cross last time because…”
“why am I missing this”
👉 Long sentences = slower brain = worse performance
🔥 How to upgrade your training with this
Combine it with your AI-style drills:
During serve + 1 drill:
Say BEFORE hitting:
“wide serve”
“attack middle”
“drop”
During return drills:
“forehand”
“step around”
“deep cross”
🧘 Deeper insight (this ties everything together)
This is actually a bridge between:
No Self, No Problem
and performance training
You’re doing this:
Replacing the “self narrative” with direct action language
So instead of:
“How am I playing?”
“Am I winning?”
You get:
“move”
“hit”
“recover”
👉 That’s closer to flow state
🏁 Bottom line
Talking to yourself = high-level performance tool
In drills → use it a lot
In matches → keep it short and targeted
Your instinct (“move back”) = exactly right
If you want, I can give you a set of 10 cue words specifically for your game (serve, return, movement, doubles positioning) that you can drill until they become automatic.

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