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Talking to yourself is not crazy

  • Writer: davidsmith208
    davidsmith208
  • Mar 20
  • 2 min read

What you’re doing—saying “move back” out loud—is actually exactly what high-level performance science recommends. It’s not weird at all; it’s a tool.


Let’s break it down in a clean, practical way.





🧠 Why talking to yourself works (the real mechanism)



Neuroscience (and sports psych) shows that self-talk helps in three key ways:



1. It speeds up decision-making



When you say:


  • “move back”

  • “crosscourt”

  • “step in”



You are:


turning a vague perception into a clear action command


That reduces hesitation.





2. It links perception → action faster



Instead of:


  • seeing partner move forward

  • thinking about what to do

  • then acting



You shortcut it:


see → say → move


That’s faster and more automatic.





3. It quiets mental noise (ties to your book)



From No Self, No Problem:


  • The “ego voice” = rambling, judging, overthinking

  • Performance voice = short, task-focused



So:


  • ❌ “Don’t mess this up” (ego)

  • ✅ “Move back” (task cue)



👉 You’re replacing the noisy self with a functional command system





🎾 In tennis specifically (this is huge)



Top players—whether consciously or not—use cue words constantly.


Think of someone like Rafael Nadal:


  • between points: rituals + internal cues

  • during play: very simple intentions






Your doubles example = perfect



Partner moves forward → you say “move back”


That’s elite awareness because:


  • You recognized team geometry change

  • You issued a clear correction instantly

  • No hesitation



That’s exactly how strong doubles teams think.





🧪 In drills vs matches




✅ In drills — go all in



Talking out loud is extremely effective here.


Do things like:


  • “cross”

  • “line”

  • “short”

  • “recover”

  • “step in”



Even exaggerate it a bit.


👉 Why:

You’re literally programming patterns into your brain





⚖️ In matches — be strategic



You don’t need to talk constantly, but:



Use:



  • quiet self-talk

  • occasional short cues



Examples:


  • “feet”

  • “early”

  • “spin”




In doubles:



Talking out loud is actually normal and good:


  • “switch”

  • “mine”

  • “back”






⚠️ One important rule (this is key)



Self-talk must be:



✅ Short and actionable



  • “move back”

  • “crosscourt”

  • “low”




❌ Not analytical



  • “I should have gone cross last time because…”

  • “why am I missing this”



👉 Long sentences = slower brain = worse performance





🔥 How to upgrade your training with this



Combine it with your AI-style drills:



During serve + 1 drill:



Say BEFORE hitting:


  • “wide serve”

  • “attack middle”

  • “drop”




During return drills:



  • “forehand”

  • “step around”

  • “deep cross”






🧘 Deeper insight (this ties everything together)



This is actually a bridge between:


  • No Self, No Problem

  • and performance training



You’re doing this:


Replacing the “self narrative” with direct action language


So instead of:


  • “How am I playing?”

  • “Am I winning?”



You get:


  • “move”

  • “hit”

  • “recover”



👉 That’s closer to flow state





🏁 Bottom line



  • Talking to yourself = high-level performance tool

  • In drills → use it a lot

  • In matches → keep it short and targeted

  • Your instinct (“move back”) = exactly right





If you want, I can give you a set of 10 cue words specifically for your game (serve, return, movement, doubles positioning) that you can drill until they become automatic.

 
 
 

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