Tennis

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1. What

actually

happens after intense exercise (like 3 sets of tennis)

Neurochemistry (the “after” effect)

After sustained, challenging exercise, several systems change for hours, not minutes:

• Endorphins

  
  

  • Reduce pain perception

  • Create calm pleasure rather than hype

  • Persist post-exercise

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• Serotonin

  
  

  • Improves mood stability and emotional regulation

  • Linked to patience, reduced irritability, and social warmth

  • Exercise increases serotonin synthesis and receptor sensitivity

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• Dopamine

  
  

  • Reinforces motivation and reward learning

  • You feel more capable and less avoidant

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• BDNF (brain-derived neurotrophic factor)

  
  

  • Improves cognitive flexibility and emotional resilience

  • This is crucial: you’re not just happier—you’re less reactive

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• Cortisol normalization

  
  

  • Even though cortisol rises during play, afterward it drops below baseline

  • This produces a sense of grounded calm

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So yes: happiness increases, but more precisely:

You become more emotionally regulated, generous in attention, and less defensive.

That distinction matters.

2. Why this isn’t just “feeling good” — it changes behavior

After intense exercise, people reliably show:

• Increased patience

• Better impulse control

• More prosocial behavior

• Less rumination

• More present-moment awareness

This means:

• You interrupt people less

• You listen better

• You interpret others more generously

• You respond instead of react

These are social virtues, not just private pleasures.

3. The ethical move: from personal benefit → benefit to others

Here’s how to build the argument cleanly.

Step 1: Emotional states affect interpersonal outcomes

This is uncontroversial:

• A regulated person produces fewer conflicts

• Mood is contagious (emotional resonance / affective contagion)

• One calm person can stabilize a room

Step 2: Exercise reliably improves emotional regulation

This is biological, not moralizing.

You are:

• Less anxious

• Less irritable

• More resilient to frustration

Step 3: Therefore, exercise changes how others experience you

Others experience:

• More kindness

• More space

• Less tension

• More safety

You are easier to be with.

Step 4: Therefore, exercise is not morally neutral

It becomes a relational good.

By regulating myself, I reduce the emotional tax I place on others.

That’s a strong ethical claim.

4. A clear argument you could actually say out loud

Here’s a concise version you could use in conversation:

“When I exercise hard, like playing several sets of tennis, it doesn’t just make me feel good. It stabilizes my nervous system for hours afterward. I’m calmer, more patient, and more attentive with people. That changes how others feel around me. In that sense, exercise isn’t just self-care—it’s a way of being less burdensome and more generous toward others.”

That’s persuasive because it avoids ego and avoids exaggeration.

5. Philosophical framing (if you want depth)

Aristotelian / virtue ethics

• Exercise cultivates temperance, patience, and good judgment

• A well-regulated body supports a well-regulated character

Buddhist framing

• Reduces craving and aversion

• Produces equanimity (upekkhā)

• Less suffering transmitted to others

Modern ethics

• Mental health is relational, not private

• Actions that improve regulation improve the commons

6. Important caveat (to keep the argument honest)

The argument holds only if:

• Exercise does not lead to ego inflation

• You don’t use fitness as moral superiority

• Recovery is respected (overtraining can reverse the effect)

In other words:

Exercise makes you happier when it makes you kinder, not harder.

7. Final distilled claim

Here’s the tightest formulation:

Intense exercise improves mood, emotional regulation, and stress tolerance. Those changes persist beyond the workout and directly shape how others experience us. Therefore, exercise is not only a private benefit but a social good: it reduces friction, increases generosity, and spreads emotional stability. In that sense, caring for one’s body becomes a form of caring for others.